Monday, June 17, 2019

Harsh Words

 

[Photo of a Scripture verse]


“To the pure, all things are pure, but to those
who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing
is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences
are corrupted. They claim to know God, but by
their actions they deny him. They are detestable,
disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.”
—Titus 1:15-16

No one likes to hear someone speak harshly against them. Over time, one of the biggest criticisms leveled against those of us who follow Jesus is that “Christian folks are just too judgmental.” In fact, that’s the way our culture encourages people to view “Christ’s-ones”—as judgmental, bigoted, and hateful.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Christians are not inherently judgmental. If we choose to follow in the footsteps of Jesus, we generally extend God’s mercy, grace, and love to all we meet. Why? Because that’s what Jesus would do.

But, what our critics fail to understand when they look at Christians is that the message of the Gospel balances two critically important elements. On the one hand, we are all sinners. We inherited the sin of Adam and compounded our inherited sinfulness by our own sinful actions. On the other hand, God has so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, Jesus, to pay the penalty for our sins. Those two elements are fundamentally necessary to an understanding of the Gospel.

Yes, when He was here on earth, Jesus extended great love to people who desperately needed it. But, He also spoke out against unrepentant sinful behavior and did not hesitate to point out the dangerous path on which those who chose to sin persisted to live their lives. So, part of the great love of our Savior is His willingness to speak out against sin.

Obviously, it seems far better if—in following this “love, but don’t fail to call sin, sin” posture of Jesus—we always speak with a gentle firmness, using words bathed in God-breathed love. And, frankly, that’s hard to do consistently. We walk a tightrope in this regard and always must seek to maintain a balance between mercy, grace, and love on the one side, and honesty about sin on the other side.

The Apostle Paul sent Titus to Crete so that Titus could “amend what is defective” in the struggling church on that island. To do so, Paul had to give Titus some clear marching orders and also make certain Titus knew what he was in for once he arrived at his destination. This prompted Paul to use words that many in our culture would label as harsh. Notice what Paul wrote to Titus, as recorded in Titus 1:15-16:

To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences are corrupted. They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.

Wow! Startling! But, was Paul wrong to call out the members of the church on Crete for their sinful behavior? No! In fact, Paul’s devotion to the Gospel required him to do so.

Of course, in directly addressing the sinners of whom he speaks, Paul would likely use more gentle words laced with kindness and love. But, when sin persisted, Paul would, no doubt, take the same kind of strong stand as the one he took in 1 Corinthians 5:1-5.

So, what do we do about the charges laid against us by the culture in which we live? I’m not at all certain we can do anything. Jesus told us that the world would hate us, just like it hated Him (John 17:14). We cannot do anything that will appease the hatred of the world toward us. But, we can fairly and accurately represent Jesus by making certain we rely on the guidance from the Holy Spirit to assure that we always balance mercy, grace, and love against an honest declaration against sinful behavior.

Let’s begin this new day by determining to stop pretending sin no longer exists among those around us. No, I’m not urging us to get up on a soapbox in the marketplace and speak harsh words. That would only make us into clowns that the world would far too easily despise.

But, when faced with the opportunity to gently and tenderly speak words of love in a situation where sin is rampant, let’s choose to state the truth of God’s Word without fear. In so doing, we become instruments that the Holy Spirit can use to force sinful behavior to come into the light.

 

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