Help Me! Please, Help Me!

 

“O Lord,… be not silent. Do not be far from me, O Lord. Awake, and rise to my defense! Contend for me, my God and Lord.”

—Psalm 35:22-23

When we get into trouble, we often cry out for help. There’s no shame in that. At least there shouldn’t be any shame in asking for someone to help us.

Over the last 26 years, since arthritis has crippled my ability to walk and climb stairs—and particularly in the last six years since I had my right leg amputated below the knee—I have occasionally lost my balance and found myself clinging to some object, unable to get upright again. In those moments of teetering on the brink of falling, I call out for help. Do I wish I did not need help? Of course I do. The hardest lesson I have had to learn is to ask for help without shame. Previously, I was always a very independent person. I was strong, sure-footed, and very mobile, in spite of my extreme obesity. Now, I need help far more often than my fragile ego can tolerate. But, I have no choice.

King David knew what it was to need help. He was a very strong, self-reliant person. After all, he not only protected his sheep from a lion and a bear, he was the one who killed the Philistine giant, Goliath. Nevertheless, David found himself in need of help and learned not to be ashamed to ask for it. Here are David’s words from Psalm 35:22-23:

O Lord,… be not silent. Do not be far from me, O Lord. Awake, and rise to my defense! Contend for me, my God and Lord.

David is saying:

“I can’t fight this battle alone, Lord. I need Your help. I need You to rise to the occasion and bring me aid.”

That this great warrior would be willing to ask for help when he needed it says a lot about him. And, it says even more about the One David is asking for help.

As we begin another day, we must not be ashamed to ask God for help. We cannot obediently follow God’s will for us without His help. That’s why God gives everyone who believes the indwelling Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is there to help us. We should eagerly seek His help whenever we need it. There is no shame in asking the Spirit to contend for us. After all, that’s one of the ways He shows us how very much He loves us.

 

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Shine Brightly

 

“Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever.”

—Daniel 12:3

As a child who grew up in the 1950s, whenever I look up at the night sky, I can’t help but think of the tune “When You Wish Upon a Star.” ¹ This song written by Leigh Harline and Ned Washington for Walt Disney’s 1940 adaptation of Pinocchio was sung by Cliff Edwards in the character of “Jiminy Cricket.” You will likely remember the lyrics:

When you wish upon a star
Makes no difference who you are …
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true.

A sky full of shining stars holds a particular fascination for we earth-bound humans. The more we learn about the vast universe that surrounds our planet, the more we feel the enormity of God’s marvelous creation. The more we sense how far-reaching the universe really is, the more we recognize how blessed we are to have a personal relationship with the God who created all things.

The Christian artist, Sandi Patty, sings a wonderful song that contains these words: ²

Who filled the sky with radiant stars to glorify the night …
Almighty God! Almighty God!

The Prophet Daniel makes an interesting statement, as recorded in Daniel 12:3, regarding those who follow the pathway that God has opened up for them:

Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever.

We may not think of ourselves as “brightly shining stars.” But, in God’s eyes, we are brilliant beams of His marvelous Light in this sin-darkened world. As we begin another day, let’s praise God that He continues to mold us into the image of His holiness—a task that we are completely unable to complete on our own. As we respond to the gentle nudgings of the Holy Spirit and strive to become more and more obedient to God’s revealed will, we will, indeed, become the shining stars that He wants us to be.

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1  Harline, Leigh and Ned Washington. “When You Wish Upon a Star.” New York: Bourne Co. Music Publishers, 1940. Partial lyrics presented for Educational Fair Use illustration purposes only. Absolutely All Rights Reserved by the original Copyright Holder.

2  Nelson, Greg and Phill McHugh. “Almighty God.” Brentwood, TN: River Oaks Music Co./Shepherd’s Fold Music, 1982. Partial lyrics presented for Educational Fair Use illustration purposes only. Absolutely All Rights Reserved by the original Copyright Holder.

 

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Glory and Praise

 

“I will praise God’s name in song and glorify him with thanksgiving.”

—Psalm 69:30

Whenever we really like someone and hold that one in high esteem, if someone asks us we usually become very quick to share all of the positive things we know about that person. We readily do this because giving honor and praise to this one we hold dear tends to often reflect back on us, as well.

God has graciously allowed me to have the opportunity in my life to become friends with a few truly important people. I have never taken advantage of these relationships and consider myself very fortunate to have had the privilege of knowing these individuals. Some of them have contributed greatly to Christ and His Kingdom. Others have allowed the presence of Christ in their minds and hearts to very positively influence their work lives and their personal lives.

When it seems helpful and appropriate, I have spoken well of these individuals, just as I routinely speak well of all the people God has brought into my life. I imagine you have done the very same thing. We genuinely tend to enjoy telling others the good things about the people who are important to us.

King David felt the very same way we do. David enjoyed greatly giving honor and praise to someone whom he felt was extremely important to his daily life—someone David considered a dearly loved friend and companion. He captures this practice in these words he wrote in Psalm 69:30:

I will praise God’s name in song and glorify him with thanksgiving.

David freely praised God’s name and gave glory to Him. David did this because God meant so very much to him on the most intimate and personal level. That’s the way we, who belong to God through His Son Jesus, should feel, as well. The fact that we belong to God is the most important relationship we have. God’s great importance to us should prompt us to glorify and praise Him for who He is.

At the beginning of this new day, let’s not hesitate to tell others how much God means to us. Let’s freely share all of the wonderful qualities He has shown us in our relationship with Him. And, let’s recognize that praising God and giving Him glory also reflects back onto us. His divine Presence in our lives gives us a “holy glow” that He uses to draw others to Himself. And, that, dear ones, is an amazing and wonderful part of our reality.

 

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The Kindly Look of Jesus

 

“Though the Lord is exalted, he looks kindly on the lowly; though lofty, he sees them from afar.”

—Psalm 138:6

Have you ever walked through the streets of a large city at dusk and passed groups of homeless people as they began to gather in a place where they will spend the night? Different individuals have quite different reactions when they view these people who are down on their luck.

Whenever I encounter homeless people, I wonder how Jesus would respond to them. In that moment, I feel shame that I often am afraid of them and I recognize that what I am feeling would not be how my Lord would feel. He would feel compassion, concern, and deep love. Most of us find it very hard to love the unlovely.

In many ways, I actually consider myself “unlovable” by my fellow humans—at the same time, I know God loves me. In spite of how I feel about myself, when faced with people who have descended to a place where they never anticipated they would end up, to my sadness I do not immediately respond with the same compassion, concern, and love that Jesus would feel toward these ones.

When we meet people at the crossroads of life, one of the things we must learn as Christians is to set aside our preconceived notions, our predispositions, and our prejudices. We need the eyes of our Savior to see these ones—ones He would consider dear—as He would see them. King David captured this very thought when he wrote these words found in Psalm 138:6:

Though the Lord is exalted, he looks kindly on the lowly; though lofty, he sees them from afar.

The very fact that, even from the lofty heights of His eternal home, God sees the lowly and looks kindly on them should motivate us to do the same. We should applaud those whom God has called to specifically work with the downtrodden in this world. At the same time, we should be willing to follow in the footsteps of Jesus and extend His love to everyone who crosses our pathway, even those individuals who make us feel uncomfortable.

Let’s begin this new day by asking God to soften our hearts toward those to whom He would use us, in order to extend His lovingkindness and tender mercies. We will represent our Great King in a much better way if we take on His heart and extend His love to everyone, no matter what their current circumstances might be.

 

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Shining Like Stars

 

“Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.”

—Philippians 2:14-15

I am told that in most families with more than one child, the children vie for the attention of their mom and dad, grandmas and grandpas. They do this in a spirit of sibling rivalry or unabashed competition. I am also told that this is quite natural and helps build character into the children.

As an only adopted child, I did not have the “luxury” of experiencing this character-building experience. It could very well be that my very awkward socialization stems from this defect. In any case, I know that when we try to transfer this human experience to the spiritual, we run into a bit of trouble.

God does not respond to a group of His children clamoring for His attention. He is everywhere present and has His eyes and His ears on every single one of His dearly loved children. He knows what we need and what we desire. No amount of discord between children will earn any more of His attention or favor. The Apostle Paul clearly stated the essence of this in Philippians 2:14-15:

Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.

As we begin a new day, let’s keep in mind that complaining or arguing will buy us absolutely nothing in the Kingdom of God. Rather, devotion to the pathway that God has laid out before us through the indwelling Holy Spirit—a pathway that leads to holiness—will bring the kind of star power that lasts for all eternity.

 

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Hope from the Written Word of God

 

“For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.”

—Romans 15:4

For many years, the Bible has occupied the proper place as the number one selling book in all of literature. In fact, according to the Guinness World Records, the Bible is the best-selling book of all time, with between five and seven billion copies printed, sold, and distributed. Yet, in spite of this appropriate accolade, the fact remains that many Bibles sit on bookshelves, or on coffee tables, or on nightstands, or in some other place where they are seldom, if ever, opened and read. That’s truly a shame. Why? Because the Bible contains the marvelous and exciting story of God’s relationship with the humans He has created. And, because the Bible is the greatest message of hope ever provided for the consumption of humankind. The Apostle Paul specifically declares these encouraging words, found in Romans 15:4:

For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.

Our great hope comes from the reality recorded in God’s written Word, the Bible. We are most foolish if we do not take advantage of what the Bible has to share with us. Let’s begin this new day by determining to read our Bibles, to cherish what we read, and put what we read into practice, sharing the hope we find on its pages. If we do that, we will greatly improve our own lives and greatly improve the world around us.

 

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God is Close at Hand

 

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

—Psalm 34:18

As we move forward into the middle of the month of January, we look back on the holiday season we just passed through. Hooray! We survived! All across the United States, and even around the world, people scurried to fill their holiday season with hustle and bustle of buying gifts, decorating, attending parties, celebrating with family and friends, and generally having a glorious time. But, in the midst of all this noise and celebration, there are always those of us who have a tinge of sadness during that season of the year. We recognize that not every Christmas memory is one of joy or excitement. Yet, we do not want to “rain” on the holiday parade of others.

As I’ve shared on this blog previously, in mid-December of 1981, my dearly loved dad died suddenly of a massive heart attack at the age of 74. Four years and just one day later in 1985, my blessed and deeply loved mom also died suddenly of a cerebral hemorrhage at the age of 81. They have obviously been gone for many, many years. Yet, from time to time, particularly as an only adopted child, I feel the awful weight of their sudden deaths invade my spirit. It makes the Christmas holdays a time that is framed with a sense of grief and loss. In this, I know I am not alone.

One of the enormous blessings of being a child of God through the loving sacrifice of God’s one and only Son, Jesus, is that I know God understands my grief. After all, He watched His totally blameless Son die on the cruel Roman cross of torture on Mount Calvary, all the while knowing that Jesus was dying in place of humans whom God had chosen to belong to Himself. This is a grief—God’s grief—that we simply cannot imagine. In responding to such a loving and self-sacrificing God, King David wrote these words, as found in Psalm 34:18:

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

What a comforting thought: God is close to those who are crushed in spirit. As we begin another day, let’s be mindful that there are those around us—not only at Christmastime, but all through the year—who are dealing with grief and loss. We can be very helpful to them by letting them know that God understands their grief and so do we. We can be a genuine source of comfort to them now and all through this year that has just begun.

 

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